The new school year will be in full swing come Monday. The last couple of weeks prior to going back to the classroom is always particularly difficult for me. I find myself focusing on the losses and gains that result when I return to work each year. Thanks to human nature, the losses get me every time.
I find myself mourning the loss of time I will get to spend with my children. I lose our simple routine. Our peaceful home becomes much more hurried. My to-do list grows while my time to complete the tasks is much more limited.
I struggle. To some, this speaks right to your heart. You know these feelings all too well. Others of you are rolling your eyes and want to tell me to get over it–it could be worse. You would not be wrong. If, however, you have ever had to keep going, moving forward with a dream that is not yours, then you can relate.
I have followed the Lord’s leading to where I am now. I left a career I enjoyed to pursue a degree in a field that I had never been interested in joining. I find myself pouring my heart into things because it is what I am supposed to do, not what I want to do. That’s hard. I’ve grappled with that a lot lately and while our current circumstances will not allow me to fulfill those desires of my heart, God is using this time to grow me in some uncomfortable, yet positive, ways.
He has made me aware of some heart work that must be done. There are areas in my life that I need to cultivate and trust him to bring forth fruit. He is challenging me to focus on what I am gaining during this season as opposed to what I feel is loss. He is reminding me that my journey is mine alone. He has orchestrated my days since the beginning and while my journey has yet to look like I planned, I’ve reaped abundant blessings along the way.
“For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” Philippians 1:21
Dying to ourselves requires sacrifice. There is no way around it. The more we align our hearts and minds to the will of God in our lives, the more we realize that he knows best, regardless of how we feel or what we think. Do I wish I could just quit my job and stay home with my babies? Yes. However, if I focus on what I gain by doing what God has called me to do, the reward far surpasses what I feel I’ve lost. Serving God and giving him my best in all circumstances can be difficult but I know that he honors me in those faith based efforts.
As a teacher, I am the recipient of both praise and criticism. The accolades are much less, but they mean so much more. It can be hard to have outsiders tell you that you are overpaid to play with children or to have law makers never set foot in your classroom but dictate your funding and resources. A professional expert never likes to hear that he or she does not know how to do his or her job. Ironically, don’t we as Christians often find ourselves responding to God in just that way?
God is a professional. He is an expert in every field. He knows the end of your journey and is prepared to support you every step of the way.
And yet, we act like he does not know what he’s doing. I have been learning a lot about really learning to trust his goodness and intentions over the last couple of years. The one thing that he continues to speak to my heart, especially right now, is that everything I feel like I am losing or missing out on in the name of Jesus is moving me one step closer to the glory that awaits.
When I see my Jesus face-to-face, I can rest assured that by dying to myself and persevering according to his leading, I will hear him say, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” He will be proud of my willingness to serve him where he planted me. He will commend my efforts in attempting to balance my work and home responsibilities with grace. My children will call me blessed for having shown them the importance of choosing Christ and serving him well.
So, as the new school year gets underway, I pray (and at times beg) God to show me purpose in my current position. Because he is a gracious and loving God, he allows me to wallow but he does not leave me to it. He prompts me through scripture, comments from friends, and a still small voice in quiet moments to look at all I gain as I attempt to embrace the life laid before me. It takes discipline, courage, and surrender and ultimately, it will all be worth it.